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The free help cycle – easy task with big reward

How nice it is to get free help randomly? it can change your day. Life in the 21st century is demanding and can bring many people to over self concentration and self isolation from what’s going on around them. It is almost automatic. The demanding tight schedule that many people are living in and the constant attachment to our phones has brought many people to chronically ignore what’s going on around them. Moreover, living in a massive city can create feeling of detachment from the living population around you as a whole as it is to big and to diverted to handle with.

To be honest, seating in a main street of a big city and studying the people around can be an endless full time occupation, as so many different people are passing and constant change is happening. With all that said, the reaction of most of the people to that reality is to develop a small cycle of closed people which create the individual social cycle. All the rest of humanity and its life become somehow irrelevant to ones life. It is natural, energy saving and a mentally comfortable behavior.

Nevertheless, it is an extreme. This behavior is creating a mass detachment from the society itself. It creates small connection unites that are moving in the same space without interacting with each other. This mental stage is also negative in some aspects, as it inevitably develop in any individual mind a feeling of loneliness and detachment fro the society itself. It is important for me to mentioned, that this kind of social psychology is natural and normal. It is part of the side effect of our evolution into the reality we are living in those days.

Back to the title. can you remember a day in which you needed help with something and a random person came and helped you FOR FREE! it was not a big task and it didn’t took a lot of time, but what a nice feeling it gave you. If you cannot remember such a case, this topic is not less relevant for you.There is something magical in such acts of kindness. It is a win win that can give a good feeling that can stay with you for the all day. More importantly, it is a pure act of positive socialism and a demonstration of caring for the sake of it. In the reality, we could all use some random help sometimes and we all have this 1-5 minutes of giving it to someone else.

help each other

The free help cycle motive is very simple. every day, try to help a random person at least once for free and with a smile. It can be an old person that need it, a homeless, a sad person (sometime a smile and a hug is enough), a kid, a pregnant woman, a lost guy or any person that looks like it needed really. As we all need some help sometime, I’m sure that if you start been aware of it many opportunities will come. Why should you from the first place? what good does it do?

First of all you are helping someone else, meaning you’re making another person happier. We need this kind of behavior in our current society. We are so detached from each other that we forgot how simple it is to help for the sake of it. Secondly, it is extremely rewarding. Helping somebody else is feeling you with a good feeling that boost your energy, your happiness and can even give you a small boost your self esteem. You will be amazed from the reaction and thankfulness of people. And who knows, you can even make new friends in this way.

This cycle of helping is benefiting everyone, the individual that get helped, the helper and the society as a whole. Helping without asking nothing back is not a waste of time it is a door to the creation of a better life and better society for free. If this idea is spread and demonstrated in action, even people that do not help other normally will automatically start doing so. It is a natural psychological process.  Try it and see for yourself (it rake at least 3 weeks to actually try it seriously)

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I believe in Humanity

Many people have called me naive, but I believe in humanity. As part of promoting the ideas and my writings, I take me time to actively engage people into conversations concerning our society and its future. Many times people has explained me, that there is no hope for people and humanity as we all have some “bad” inside of us or that we don’t care enough.

It is true that at this point of our history, it is easy to arrive to such conclusions. The news papers and the media are constantly bombing us with negative information, exposing the horror and down side of our kind. Politician are corrupted, cooperation and capitalists are pursuing their self interest and many bad actions do not get punished. All these are reflecting a social problem, not a human one.

Our society is degrading, losing its needed inspiration and its positive role models. Our education, lacking innovation and budget, is bent toward values of materialism and individualism imposed by the need of our dyeing economy. Without any doubts, our social values and communities are in desperate times. Nevertheless, it does not mean in any way that humans do not have the capacity and will to change and create a better future. We always had it within us and we always will.

Part of the process of evolution requires a natural process of trial and error. As part of this process, it is inevitable that some mistakes and bad turn will be made. It is only by admitting those mistake and correcting them, that we will be able to move forward toward a more positive course of evolution. As it looks these days, it is time to admit our mistakes.

As I mentioned in previous posts, I believe the majority of the people on this planet would prefer living in peace and prosperity with their families and the people they love around them. They just don’t know how similar their feeling are to the people around them. It is a complicated feeling of loneliness and lack of belief in our neighbors, that bring us to act as we do. We need to believe in our kind and in our neighbor, if we want to start to work on creating ourselves a better world.

The development of the last decades has change every aspect of the human existence. It is the first time we have the capacity to communicate and understand each other on a global scale. We have access to information and knowledge, needed to surpass the doctrine of power and separation promoted by the small group of self interest called our elite. There will always be a small group that will search to promote ignorance and fear by overusing violence and terror. Now that we can share a bigger awareness, it is time we stop letting these groups dictate how we see the world and start working and changing it for the better.

As I wrote in my book:

“There will always be a minority who act against the “common good.” These people hold a different set of beliefs, and should be always considered as such. As we are entering a new “global era,” it’s important to understand that we are as similar as we are different….”

“…The unification of humanity under one sets of values isn’t required for the creation a better world. Instead, we must accept humans regardless of their differences and similarities, their belief in the majority of humans create a better future, and their willingness to oppress and ignore the minorities that try to separate us with violence and fear. We’re all part of this planet, and we’re all sometimes good and sometimes bad. The majority of people on this planet prefer to live peacefully in their homes and raise families while belonging to a constructive society, knowing they’re part of something bigger than themselves. We are all indeed part of something bigger than ourselves; it is called humanity.”

I believe in humanity and I’m not naive. The seed of positive change lay in our willingness to believe in each other and fight to prove it every day. We have a long way to go. It is the knowledge that together we can create a better world that will give rise to the leader needed a this complicated time.

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